Honoring Our Angels on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day Remembering Amelia and Evelyn

October 15th is a poignant day for countless families globally. It's Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day, a time dedicated to honoring the lives of babies lost too soon. This day serves as a heartfelt reminder of the grief experienced by many parents and the enduring love they hold for those little ones they have lost.

By lighting candles in memory of these cherished souls, we create a beautiful wave of light representing hope, love, and remembrance. In this post, I honor my daughters, Amelia and Evelyn, while reflecting on the experiences of parents and families affected by the loss of a baby.

The Importance of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day, observed on October 15th, is crucial for raising awareness about the harsh realities of pregnancy loss, stillbirth, and infant death. Nearly 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in loss—a staggering statistic that underscores the pressing need to recognize and validate the pain experienced by many families.

This day provides a platform to share stories and educate others about these often hidden losses, fostering a supportive community. Activities such as candle-lighting ceremonies, support group meetings, and social media campaigns unite people worldwide in remembrance. On October 15th 2025 at 7 PM, candles were lit, and a continuous wave of light spread across the globe, honoring all babies gone too soon.

A lit candle surrounded by flowers in remembrance of lost babies

The Impact of Loss on Families

Losing a baby can deeply affect families, leading to feelings of isolation, heartache, and confusion. Parents often struggle to express their grief, and friends and family may feel unsure of how to offer support.

Creating a safe space for conversations about loss is essential. Open discussions can help dismantle the stigma surrounding pregnancy and infant loss, allowing families to feel less isolated in their grief. For instance, 70% of grieving parents say that talking about their baby helps them heal.

Support groups, whether in-person or online, can offer valuable resources for parents processing their loss. These groups foster a sense of community and understanding, providing comfort in knowing others have shared similar experiences.

Ways to Support Those Affected by Loss

If someone you know has experienced the loss of a baby, here are several impactful ways you can offer support:

1. Listen: Sometimes, the best thing you can do is simply lend an ear. Let the grieving parent share their feelings and memories without judgment or interruption.

   
   

2. Acknowledge: Do not hesitate to mention the baby's name. Acknowledging their baby can help parents feel validated in their grief.

   
   

3. Offer Practical Help: Grieving parents might struggle with daily tasks. Simple offers of help—like cooking meals or running errands—can ease their burden.

   
   

4. Send a Thoughtful Gift: A care package, a plant, or personalised item honoring the baby can provide a source of comfort.

   
   

5. Check-In Regularly: Grief does not have a set timeline. Keep in touch with the grieving parent in the weeks and months after their loss to show ongoing support.

   
   

The Wave of Light

One touching tradition of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day is the Wave of Light. At 7 PM October 15th, countless individuals around the world light candles in memory of their lost babies. This act creates an enduring wave of light, symbolizing love and remembrance.

As we continue the tradition to light our candles for our daughters, Amelia and Evelyn, we join others in this powerful tribute. The flickering flames illustrate our love, which remains forever bright, and this shared experience of loss connects us all.

If you or someone you know has been affected by the loss of a baby, we encourage you to participate in the Wave of Light, take a moment to reflect on the lives you are honoring. Share their stories, celebrate their existence, and allow their memories to resonate in your heart.

Finding Hope After Loss

The pain of losing a baby may always persist, but many parents discover ways to honor their children and keep their memories alive. Some create memorials, while others participate in charitable events or support organisations dedicated to pregnancy and infant loss.

Finding hope after loss is a personal journey, unique to each individual. It is essential to permit yourself the space to grieve while actively seeking ways to heal.

Consider exploring creative outlets—like writing, painting, or playing music—to express your feelings. Engaging in these activities can provide a therapeutic release, aiding in processing your emotions.

In Memory of Our Little Ones

As we observe Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day on October 15th, let us take a moment to remember the babies who were lost too soon. We pay tribute to our daughters, Amelia and Evelyn, and to all the little ones who have profoundly touched our lives.

By lighting a candle and participating in the Wave of Light, we create a powerful symbol of love and remembrance. Let us continue to support one another, share our stories, and raise awareness about the realities of pregnancy and infant loss.

Together, we can forge a community filled with understanding and compassion, ensuring that no parent feels alone in their grief. The love for our lost babies never disappears; it continues to shine brightly in our hearts.